Absolutely heartbroken and feel stupid cause I’ve only dated this person for 3-4 months. 2 months ago they started cancelling plans last minute, distancing themself from me, and ultimately a few weeks ago came out with “I thought I was, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now, with anyone”.
No other reason for breaking things off with me, we never really argued, communicated great through those months we were seeing each other, and then comes the distancing followed by this.
Now I see them just 4 weeks after them saying this on dating apps again. I’d say we broke up amicably, but this has really annoyed me because I feel they’ve just lied to my face giving me a fake reason for breaking things off.
I really want to confront them and find out the real reason, but would feel like a complete douche doing this in person or over text, I’ll always come across jealous, selfish, and bitter.
Any advice from anyone, really struggling to get through the day without feeling my heart sink followed by anger & anxiety which is affecting my work, appetite, and sleep, it’s awful.
TLDR: 4 month relationship gave me the excuse of “not ready for a relationship” but is back on dating apps weeks later, heartbroken & finding it hard to move on.