u/Acceptable-Self-3314

How to approach dating a girl for the first time?

23F! I’ve had crushes on girls since age 12, but haven’t gotten comfortable being out about it until more recently. I’ve started chatting with this girl who’s sooo lovely and I’m already starting to crush. I guess I’m nervous though. I’ve been interested and kissed girls that I’ve been interested in, but I’ve never been serious with a girl or had sex with a girl. I don’t want to come off as if though she’s an experiment because she’s not. I really do like her and want her to know it’s not just me trying to figure things out. How do I approach this? I’ve tried talking to my lesbian friends about this but they just say “how do you know you’re bi if you’ve never been with a girl?” And it just seems invalidating because heterosexual people don’t assume they’re just asexual if they haven’t had sex yet…anyways any bit of advice is appreciated

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u/Acceptable-Self-3314 — 8 hours ago