I made a post on a throwaway acc about my SA experience.
I wrote that my cousin who is 5 years older started demanding intimacy from me from when i was 7 till 17 years old. I wrote that i had trouble saying no to her and that i didnt really hate her and that i was confused if i really physically enjoyed it.
Many comments were helpful. They made me see my trauma in a new light and they explained why i have these thoughts but they were also comments saying that i am sick in the head and there was one guy who was triggered by the word "enjoying". He was triggered so much that he started being suspicious of me and that i didnt tell the full story. He obviously had to mention that he was raped at eight years old and didnt like it one bit which is probably why hes angry at my post.
Im obviously sorry for him and that it happened to him but im also sick and tired that people like this try to downplay my own trauma just because it doesnt fit in their worldview.
And yes people can be confused about being raped or sa'd or even get traumatized to a point where they enjoy it and just because you didnt react like that doesnt mean you are allowed to judge that other person.