i don't want to be shamed. i know i should have been safe, especially after the first time. i take accountability. if anyone knows any birth control advice for someone who smokes regularly that would be very helpful after this.
i just found out i'm pregnant. i feel so much guilt and shame. my first abortion was at 18, and now i'm 21. i feel so bad to be putting my partner through this again. i feel so guilty to have to make this choice again. i've always wanted kids, especially with my partner, but it would be so unfair to have a child at this point in time- we're not financially stable nor do we have our own place so our family would have to be forced to help if we chose to have this child. it's just so... bizarre. i often think about where we'd be if we didn't do the first abortion, and now i'll have to learn to live with this second one.
is it safe to have a second abortion via pill? i'm not comfortable with surgery & cannot afford it anyways, so i'm hoping i can use the pills again. please let me know