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So many books, articles, and stories only focus on men who have wives who are withholding sex. But what about the women who are suffering?

I (44f) have been married to my husband (46m) for 13 years. Sex started dwindling about 11 years ago until it came to a screeching halt 3 years ago. I have tried talking to him about it for years, and it’s like talking to the f*king wall.

There is no help for women in my situation because women are always “the problem”. I am the one who feels trapped. I am the one who is supposed to just deal with it because there is nothing I can do if he doesn’t want to talk about/deal with it.