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(M34) It’s been eating away at me for MONTHS and MONTHS but I’ve finally accepted I am gay. Tonight I told my mum after replaying the conversation over and over in my mind. No idea why I was so worried as I knew she’d be like “thats cool. Did you know Julie found her missing cat…” . She always had her suspicions but kept them to herself.

Now it’s plucking up the courage to tell the children that I’m about to tear their happy family apart and I’m moving out.

Any words of wisdom for those that have done it? They’re 6 and 13. My wife and I have are rarely affectionate or spend time together so I am sure they’re aware something is up anyway