u/Academic_Bison_1558

So I’m having a garden party themed wedding I want my guest to come dressed as semi formal with no jeans or tennis shoes in more so spring colors which it doesn’t have to be and my father and grandmother are calling me rude for it and saying no one will want to show up everyone else I’ve talked to has been fine with it even my bridesmaids so am I actually being rude for putting my foot down and wanting semi formal at MY wedding