u/Academic-Avocado-178

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Can’t get this guy off my mind

I literally got out of a long term relationship only 3 months before him and that was easier than this. Things ended because it was too soon for both of us to start dating again (but I guess for him, more so). But I think about him all the time.

My goal when we started wasn’t to catch feelings but to have fun. But we went on enough dates to the point where I do think we both got attached, and at one point it was obvious we both actually fell for each other, it got awkward because we were both kinda not expecting it. We stopped talking, I tried once to save it, and kinda gave up after that because we both didn’t have the energy.

But as I start to heal from my last traumatic relationship, I think I just start to think about him more and more. I guess I wonder if I should reach out again since it was moreso him who went MIA :/

I have more than enough options and guys trying to get with me, but I can’t move on when I’m thinking about him

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