u/AbunaiShi

I’ve been struggling to connect with people lately.

It’s not for a lack of interest. I understand everyone has their own life going on, and I respect people’s space. But a lot of the time, it feels like relationships have become transactional. If things don’t click right away, people just move on or disappear.

I’m not looking for anything complicated. I just want to meet someone who enjoys living, who’s curious, who wants to get more out of life. Someone open to having real conversations, sharing hobbies, and exploring ideas together.

Honestly, I don’t even know how to start anymore. I feel a bit out of touch. I guess some level of isolation comes with focusing on improving yourself, your work, or whatever you dedicate your time to. But lately, I’ve been feeling like it might be worth trying to connect again.

Just to be clear, I’m not talking about anything romantic. It’s strange that I have to say that, but online it feels necessary.

Steam didn't really work for me, since it's just the same people hounding the same groups. Spamming the same things, and everyone is just gooner brained, you can test it out by saying "femboy" and their dopamine starts to spike... and they just skibidi all over the place.

I don’t have any requirements. This isn’t an application. I’m just looking to connect with people on a real level.
Some of my interests:
Gaming, writing, drawing, martial arts (BJJ-Boxing), music, horror related stuff, true crime, philosophy… probably a few more I’m forgetting.

If you took the time to read this, thank you.

I don’t know if this comes across as desperate, but that’s not the point. I already have friends, I just think there’s room to meet new people too.

Blesses