Moving on
I've posted previously before about my seperation with my wife.
I have accepted there is no going back and no longer a push for reconciliation. There was to much damage caused. Emotional cheating by her, lies and the rest. I'm slowly trying to move on, but we still cohabit the same household.
It was agreed she would buy me out of the flat we live in and using this money I will buy my own place.
She has constantly asked me to be friends with her following our seperation and she has realised how much adult stuff I did around bills etc and she keeps coming to me for help with solicitors regarding the sale.
I am finding it hard moving on, she was my wife and for 12 years we have been together and she felt like my soul mate. She has also asked me to remain friends even after I move out. Has this ever worked for anyone? All the advice I see is that this never works.
I am slowly packing my belongings into boxes as I near completion date for my new house. Is there any tips out there for how to cope with this? This home I'm currently in was our matrimonial home and it feels awful seeing just her stuff being left behind whilst mine is sitting in cardboard boxes