Me and my bf have been together for a year. He have been in another country, on the other side of the atlantics, the past 3 months because of a study. I went to visit him, and we where going on a small trip together. He gives me a backpack where i can pack some stuff into it. While doing that, I found some black panties 3 sizes bigger than what i usually use so i know they're not mine.
I look at him and says wth?? And he looks back on me with a surprised look. I'm not sure if it was because he geniunly havent seen the panties before, or if it was because i found them. He swear he doesnt know anything about them, and tells me that he bought the backpack not long ago in a store not far from where he's staying.
This is 3 weeks ago, and i keep circling back to that moment. I really want to believe him, but its so hard to believe that he bought a backpack with panties in it. Has that happend to anyone else??
The relationship until this point have always been healthy, with love, respect and we both always been open and talked through stuff. So im honestly not sure what to do.