I think my husband just hates me
Weve been married 10 years. The past couple years ive been a SAHM after getting pregnant with our second. Im by no means lazy i keep the house extremely tidy esp when i know hes coming home and for the most part cook every day. Im very busy with my kids schooling and activities and various therapies for the baby. I take care of myself ive lost over 60 pounds this past year after having our son and get myself “ready” for the most everyday. I dont always do my hair fancy but i at least will do my skin care and light makeup etc.
Lately it feels like my husband always has an annoyed attitude towards me or like hes mad at me about something. Never happy to see me. He’ll come home say hi to the kids and barely look at me. When i talk to him hes on his phone and gives me high key attitude literally about anything like hes doing it on purpose at this point. We keep having fights about it. He keeps saying hes not giving me attitude.
I pushed for an answer last night and he said bc i make comments about things he does around the house. For example yard work. the other day i made a comment about the size of the hole he dug to plant a tree all i said was that the hole seemed small and that i thought it was supposed to be wider. Im like tht cant be the only reason why ur giving me attitude. And he said bc i dont wear makeup and do my hair everyday for him but when i go out with my friends i do. ?? I really had no response besides like ok ill try harder with my appearance? Is this really going to stop him from giving me an attitude all the time? Weve been married for 10 years and my effort in my appearance has been the same the entire time lol so im not really sure where this came from.
Tl;dr
advice/tips to deal with this? Is this really about the comment i made and bc im not wearing enough makeup?