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“Whether it is your love relationship or your marriage, whatever it may be — if you do this one thing, that relationship can last for a lifetime without distance growing between you.

In the early days of a relationship, women often share their wishes, decisions, or opinions with men. When a man hears it, he may sometimes feel it has no logic or seems silly. At times, he may say ‘No.’ Even if you say ‘No,’ that’s okay — but don’t start giving advice.

Instead, understand that matter and turn it into a ‘Yes.’ If you can do that, you will be a successful partner. Otherwise, even if you do a thousand good things for them after saying ‘No,’ they may not remember any of it. But that one ‘No’ they may never forget. If needed, they may even leave the relationship because of it.”

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Hi all,

I’m a 30-year-old Malayali man from Kerala, currently based in the UAE. Life didn’t go as planned, and I’ve been divorced for the past 2 years. Often, people who go through a divorce end up being known mainly by that identity, and I had to accept that as part of my journey too.

I was never someone with the mindset of “one relationship ends, find another immediately.” For a long time, I believed living alone was enough and focused only on my job, business, and family. But just like even the strongest snow eventually melts, there came a point where I felt the need for companionship again. Life can feel lonely when you realize there’s no one truly your own to talk to and share life with.

People we lose don’t always look back, and that realization made me feel ready to begin a new chapter. So yes, I started exploring matrimony platforms. If my profile matched only based on salary packages or financial expectations, I know I could find a partner easily—but that’s not what I’m looking for.

What I truly value is simple:

A partner who is simple, genuine, and most importantly, peaceful. That matters to me more than anything else.

Looking for someone who is also open to a second chance at life and believes in fresh starts. If I find someone with that mindset, I’d consider it happiness.

About me:

• Hindu

• Mother tongue: Malayalam

• Age: 30

• No drinking, No smoking

• B.Tech (EEE)

• Job + Business in UAE

• Middle-class family background

I appreciate people who love learning, reading, writing, self-growth, and building something meaningful in life. I believe in supporting my partner as much as possible in her goals and ambitions.

I also love traveling, meaningful conversations, and I naturally connect well with good listeners. South Indian culture is something I deeply value and admire.

No caste preferences. Open to any state or even abroad.

Feel free to DM if this resonates with you.