u/AbleGuidance3625

So my girlfriend and I are long distance, and we sext pretty regularly. Here’s the thing, she’s almost always the one who starts it. She gets all into it, builds the vibe, says wild stuff, and fully leads the session.

But the second the sun comes up? Total 180. She wakes up drowning in guilt like she just committed a war crime. She refuses to even acknowledge what happened the night before. If I so much as hint at last night’s conversation, she shuts down immediately and says “I don’t want to talk about it.”

It’s honestly getting exhausting. She’s super into it at night, then treats me like I’m her dirty secret in the morning. Anyone else dealing with this Jekyll-and-Hyde sexting situation? How do I bring it up without her spiraling even harder?