this girl and i have been on n off for quite some time, but today is her birthday, so i've just been going crazy wondering if should wish her a happy birthday or not. i'm indecisive because she never wished me happy birthday for mine two months ago, but we were kind of arguing during that time, even though mid-argument she went "oh, your birthday is tomorrow," yet she never actually texted me the day of.
i asked her about it later on and she told me she was thinking about it all day, but didn't know it was appropriate to text me, so she didn't.
things between me and her have been very calm. we decided to be just friends, but i'm just not sure if i should reach out to wish her happy bday. we haven't spoken in a week, and i don't want to look like a fan, but, still, i kind of want to.
a lil fried egg with some potatoes n broccoli that i threw together last min
edit: i said friends, but our dynamic hasn't been very... friendly. she still flirts at times, and it still feels more like a situationship than a friendship, hence why i'm indecisive. if it were simply just friends, i would've done it because i wish all my friends happy birthday, but this just doesn't feel like it.
i keep getting told i shouldn't, but i would like to know perhaps why that is? i feel like bc i expected a bday response it's only fair to consider it for her, too, especially since it makes me sad that i could possibly not wish someone i love a happy birthday.