u/Able-Criticism-3309

I have some friends who I’ve been friends with for a while, and they’re like homophobic and transphobic to a degree, where they don’t explicitly say incredibly offensive things, but they make stupid jokes and things that are only slightly offensive. I am a queer person, but they don’t know that. I just don’t know how to confront them without just coming out, or if I even should come out, like I know it’s not great for me to be friends with them, but they’re not trying to hurt me they just think that what they’re dating is funny. I just need some help on what I even should do, because I go to a really small school, so there’s like nobody else that is actually want to be friends with.