What should I do with this girl?
I met this girl around 6 months ago for the first time through mutual social circles. I still remember the first conversation we had, and she essentially asked me to go hit on her friend. We saw around 2 months after that through a social event, where I asked her out and for her number. She said yes and gave me her number. I texted her the next day with a simple hey, time, place and plan for the date. No response.
I saw her again around a month after that, we talked and she said sorry for not answering, she would love to go out with me but is extremely bad at texting. Then eventually I texted her, she took a week to answer that, then another week to text again as I hadn’t answered, and after a couple of suggestions we ended up going on a date (in the end from her taking the initiative).
I had the best time with her and I really like her. Then after the date we didn’t see eachother for a bit over a month due to conflicting schedules. Now I saw her a couple of days ago at a social event. We talked a lot and joked, had a fun time. At one point she came up to me and said she doesn’t want to talk to anyone else but me. I ended up staying the night at her place, where we talked for a loong time. I told her completely how I feel, that I’m extremely interested, I think about her way too much considering we’ve been on one date etc. etc. We weren’t physical intimate other than holding hands, leaning on my shoulder and cuddling in bed. Before going to sleep she told me she has ADHD as a side note, and I think that answered a lot of questions for me. I woke up a lot earlier than her and couldn’t sleep so I got up, washed her dishes and cleaned the floor and countertop and left her a note about how I had to go, hopefully didn’t mess anything up by cleaning, hopefully see you soon.
Now it’s been over 3 days after that, I haven’t heard anything from her, nor have I myself texted her after that, and I don’t know what do to. I would like for her to text me as that would clearly show interest from her part as I don’t really know how she actually feels other than what she has shown. But then again I don’t wanna be in a limbo where neither of us texts eachother because we’re waiting for the other person, especially as texting might be difficult for her.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation with a person like her, or knows a person like her? Everytime I see her, she’s interested, welcoming, friendly, warm, and just overall an amazing person that I’d want to spend more time with, but through text I might confuse her communication style as disinterest, especially if I compare it to a typical under 25 communication style. Also, I do not want to throw away something good for something so trivial.