Throwaway, because why am I here…. It’s so embarrassing.
I’m 47f my 48m said my vagina was loose during sex. We have sex almost every day (for the last 22years)and he said the day before it was fine but the day after it was loose and demands to know who I’m cheating on him with.
I’ve given birth to several children over the last 20 years. I stopped enjoying sex at least a decade ago but still have sex for the intimacy and he has a high libido. Prone to uti so have medication for it. Started various medications to “help” with perimenopausal symptoms.
I’m not cheating. If I could never have sex again in life, I wouldn’t miss it. He is being so mean and degrading because he thinks I’m loose from having sex with someone else. Ready to divorce and leave, he won’t listen to me.