u/Abby_Meek

My husband uses the dread game so much. Not the flirting with other woman kind, but the negging, ignoring kind. I know i should just STFU and work on myself, but it's so hard when I feel so down all the time. His strategy is so counter productive. I will basically do ANYTHING he wants if he asks, but he wants me to just know what he wants without asking. If things aren't how he wants them he lays on the dread until I figure it out. It's so exhausting I don't have it in me to work on myself and I've gained a lot of weight over the last few years. I think if he spent more time lifting me up he would have exactly the wife he desires, but maybe he hates me. Sometimes I think he's trying to drive me crazy.