Hi r/manifestsp,
As the title suggests, I am trying to manifest a specific person (SP) who now falsely perceives me as a stalker and needy. English isn’t my first language, so I used AI to clean this up, but I want to keep my original meaning intact. I don’t mean to judge anyone manifesting their SP; I’m genuinely confused and curious.
I started talking to a girl who now views me as a potential stalker after a real-life encounter. Our chat ended after I crossed boundaries twice as she began distancing herself. While many stories involve relationships that went downhill from the start, mine was not a relationship, but friendship, had a good beginning. It fell apart due to my neediness and anxiety, which created a domino effect of bad outcomes out of spiraling, anxiety. I felt incredible amounts of remorse and grief, though that passed.
I never intended to cause harm, but I did. After being rejected, I spiraled. I still feel physical pain just thinking about manifesting her. What I don’t understand is how assuming we’re together can change her mind when she already perceives me as weak, creepy, and unsafe.
Gossip may have spread, people might have cut me off or see me differently when i enter in the workplace which was my favorite back then, and I likely can’t contact her. I know gossip shouldn’t define my life, but I’ve never seen a case where someone reunited with another person who had a false perception of them as a stalker.
I made her feel unsafe, which I deeply regret. I’m no longer obsessed with her, and I genuinely liked her. But I can’t imagine how thinking of her "from a place of love" would make her love me again after I made her feel threatened. I know the Law of Assumption says no one has free will and that everyone is a mirror (EIYPO), but how have you ever changed someone’s mind about you just by thinking about them from afar?
I know I should assume she’s with me and that the 3D will rearrange without asking "how." But I’m afraid of wasting years on nothing. If I assume the wish is fulfilled, isn’t "time is an illusion" just a way to say, "Don’t worry about the delay until the bridge of incidents catches up"? Because if three years pass and I only see her once, it feels like a coincidental, avoidant failure, not a manifestation.
I’m not assuming failure, but I’m genuinely stuck. How do you manifest someone who feels unsafe with you? How do you stop it from feeling like a delusion? What do you do when you’re afraid of wasting your life, yet you know no one else can manifest her for you? I believe we are soulmates.
I’m coming from a neutral place and genuinely want to understand, because this subreddit is filled with plenty of stories that tend to repeat over and over again. I just genuinely wonder how many of you have manifested your SP or filled stories, convince one another it works because requiring so many posts to convince someone it works doesnt feel right to me. Or maybe they did? But people naturally returning to one another can be a regular dynamic, based on how they got along.
So what now?