u/AWannaBNerd

I’m awful at reading social cues so apologies if this is a silly post.

There’s a guy who I really cannot read.

He often says things like “when are we doing x?” or “we should go see this,” but it’s always super casual and kind of jokey. He never really pins down actual plans and he will only say these things in person - never texts me to ask.

I can’t tell if this is him showing interest in a low-pressure way or if it’s just throwaway chat with no real intention behind it.

Do guys joke about this stuff or say it when they don’t mean it?