Hey yall,
So me (M33) and my girlfriend (F31) had a fight or an argument you could say where it started on saturday this weekend. She told me that her period was/is coming in a few days and that she felt extremely anxious and easily irritated etc. No big deal I thought.
Now my girlfriend can be a bit rude when she has her pms but she usually apologizes afterwards so i’m used to it you can say but it can get really annoying sometimes. So she was getting ready to go to a dinner with a few of her friends and we started arguing because I thought that she was being condescending with her answer. I asked her something and when she kept being rude, I got mad and basically snapped at her, asking why she was being this way and that I dont have time for this shit because I need to study and that I was just trying to help. Afterwards I left to go to my place and we didnt speak for the rest of the day.
We didn’t really speak much the next day but the day after that (so monday) we were exchanging text messages and I asked her if her friends noticed her pms and she said that she told one of her guy friends that ”I’m sorry if I felt a bit off but I had mega pms and then I had an argument with my bf”
I got really upset when she told me that because her words to me were just a ”sorry”. I felt like she took me for granted and the explanation she gave to her friend is basically the explanation I felt like I deserved if that makes sense. Now at first she started saying that I was being jealous of her friends but I explained my point of view very matter of factly. She has reached out and apologized but I still feel hurt. I feel neglected or whats the word, like she was taking me for granted. AIO??
Sorry for grammar mistakes, english is not my first language