Looking for some advice of how to let your nanny go. She has been with us for almost a year and sadly things are no longer working out. We aren't sure how to go about letting her go because we know she truly cares about our kids and we feel like she's a part of our family.
She brings her child with her and our children are no longer getting along. Our son and her son (both 4 years old) are constantly fighting with another and even getting physical. We have tried many times to redirect and discipline our child. He gets a long great with other kids and has fantastic reports from his school. The only time he acts out is around her child. They both act out towards each other.
When these incidents happen, she scolds our child much more harshly than her child and will even leave our infant and other child unattended to console her child.
We feel that it will be best to move onto another caregiver who does not bring their child along with them because it is a little concerning to us that our children will always come second to her while in her care.