u/AIRBUS320321

Cards I chose for frequent international Travel from icici.

Cards I chose for frequent international Travel from icici.

Emeralde gives unlimited lounge access even internationally. And MMT for 0.99 forex with cashback. I have more than one reason for choosing these cards.

I just want to share how the packing looks like from icici.

u/AIRBUS320321 — 4 days ago

My gf for 2 years doing one thing which is bothering me so much.

During the first week of dating, she lied she need money to eat and took money from me, and she went to party with her male friend. She even posted picture on her instagram with her two male friends, one was lifting her touching her inappropriate. That don’t look friendship to me.

We eventually separated. But she got pregnant with me and we had to meet and again and sort it out. We decided to keep the baby and thought we can build something fresh leaving all the past. But she kept chatting with her ex during pregnancy and even after the baby born claiming now they are just friends.

For me this felt very disrespectful as a man. I asked her to let go of them. But she never listened and this caused lot of problems between us.

Somehow she blocked her ex after countless fights. But the male friends she is not ready to give up even after two years. She spoke bad about me to them. She even shared what happened in our bedroom to them. On top of that every time she talk to them it keeps reminding me how bad she was lying to me, took my money and sitting on so called friend’s lap. It keeps reminding things I want to forget.

I even said I will leave you if you don’t leave them. But she care the least. She Only fight with me to keep them but not the other way.

Even recently she met a male friend behind my back and started working with him without telling me for a month knowing I already won’t like any association with him and it will cause problem between us. Also she lied again for money. She spent my money while claiming her credit card is blocked.

The worst part is even when I am right and she gets caught red handed, I am not able to held her accountable for anything. Not even for one thing. She gets defensive, manipulate to make you believe her lie to escape accountability. Asking her to leave all the men of past and be loyal just to me makes her feel her being in jail. She wants all the attention from everyone. She calls me insecure, controlling, sexist etc. She says it’s my friends and I won’t leave them. But the reason I ask her to leave them is for the kind of friendship she had with them. She admits she made mistakes in the past and her past doesn’t define the present. Yet she is still being the same as past lying, cheating with money and the same fighting for other men. How can I trust her if she lie to me for 20$ being an adult? I do have a son with her and that’s one reason I am tolerating so much disrespect and all these worse behaviours.

Now I am almost snapping and want to abandon her and my son for good. seriously she says she loves me but she keeps ditching me and making me angry to entertain her male friends.

Help me out. Thanks.

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u/AIRBUS320321 — 12 days ago