Contacting ex about potential sexual assault
After reflecting on my 21NB relationship with my ex 20M I realize I may have been raped. Our relationship, which lasted about 2 years, ended around 10 months ago and the week before we broke up he was rubbing up against me and then penetrated me without a condom. I was not on birth control of any type and this was never something we did before because I wasn't not willing to take the risk. Things felt weird after that and I decided to leave. Later in the week he tried to do it again and I stopped him. He then got upset with me, and rolled over all angry. He was short with me the rest of the day and just acted like being around me was the last thing he wanted. Later that day he broke off the relationship. I kept thinking about the whole situation and decided to write a letter expressing how I feel around it. I want to know if it's a good idea to send it to him and let him know how what he did made me feel and also if what happened could be considered rape or sexual assault?