u/AHK0517

Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a month. I’m an upcoming freshmen, while he’s an upcoming sophomore. We live about 45 minutes apart from each other.

I would say we’re a very affectionate couple. Intimate as well. (We‘ve done “it”). We hang out roughly 2-3 times a month, because of the distance, which makes it a little difficult. Me and him, though, are going in a few weeks to see Bruno Mars on my birthday.

I want advice on how me and him can stay in a long term relationship, even going into adult years? Me and him both struggle with mental health, me more than him, but we hear each other out and validate ourselves. We have our moments and stuff but my siblings and parents like him, and his guardian likes me. I just really want this to work. He’s always calling himself a bad boyfriend and I don’t wish that on him and I don’t think he’s bad at all. He only says that when he yells or gets mad, which, I totally get. I don’t know how to help him with that because I worry it’ll be too far one day.

The hardest part of the relationship I’d say is either the distance or his cousin. I absolutely hate his cousin, because he’s my ex. My boyfriend knows, and is aware and keeps us apart, but his cousin is a cheater and a liar. He’s how I met my boyfriend, though.

I just don’t really know what to do. I want advice, and just anything that would help me and him. And if you have any questions, feel free to ask, I just need help!!!

I, an upcoming freshmen am transferring to a school across town instead of the one I’m assigned to, due to bullying and harassment. I know roughly I’d say 20 kids going there from my middle school, but I want to take the whole summer to glow up and become THAT girl.

I’m about 5’2 and 120 lbs with a hourglass body (not tryna brag). I have light brown nearly blonde pin straight hair with green eyes with brown in the center. I’ve got rosacea (very rosy cheeks) as well. My wardrobe is a mixture of I guess “basic” clothing and some like graphic shirts and grungey stuff mixed together too. Its hard to explain it.

I got bullied because of my rosacea and also I was just really really cringey back in 6th grade. Like people still have my old videos from back then. I still do. I also got bullied for just known as being a ”bop” (which, to be fair, I did have an era where I hopped around a lot last year going into this year), and bullied for my depression. Ive been hospitalized 3 times, actually just freshly out the hospital. I’m not even finishing off the school year, I’m doing outpatient care instead of seeing all the people at my school.

I do volleyball and basketball and I want to get into flag football but I’m not sure. I just want to be able to be known as THAT girl because I’ll only know a couple people, but some of them already don’t like me (the boys from my middle school). What can I do over the summer to glow up? Be brutally honest. Don’t be soft and say I’m beautiful the way I am. I just need honesty here. And tips.