u/AFlyInYourEar

25 [F4F] - SEA/SA/EU -Looking for friends and maybe more? ✨

Hi! I don't know anyone in the sapphic community so please bless me with your presence 🙂‍↕️<3. Ideally you're either my age or older and closer to my timezone (South Asia). I have largely spoken to folks from The EU, South Asia and South East Asia and this time difference has worked well for us!

To give you some idea about me:

I’m a bit of a nerd at heart and love conversations that start off casually and somehow spiral into movies, linguistics, politics here and there sometimes (I'm left leaning), philosophy, psychology, history, culture (reading Susan Sontag at the moment), anything random about your day or an unexpected existential moment. ✨ I'm also a fairly new gamer so it would be lovely to maybe listen to music together or have spontaneous nerding out sessions between gaming!

In terms of gender expression, I would say I'm a tomboy because I lean both ways but currently I lean more towards the femme in me. I'm 5'1" so a little bit on the shorter side, I'm physically fit and exercise at least thrice a week. I have short hair up to my shoulder and many people have said I have a puppy like face.. whatever that means?

What I'm looking for in you:

- I value an open and curious mind so I appreciate people who are willing to analyse and understand something before they form their opinion on it. I am looking for openness, honesty, and flexibility in a friendship/relationship. I appreciate people who are emotionally aware, have high self awareness, are flexible, communicate clearly, don’t rush connections and respect boundaries!

- I would love to know someone who doesn't hesitate to share little moments or thoughts from her day. Little details that help me piece together little aspects of your personality would be lovely <3

- Bonus points if you're a gamer!

All this sounds super serious but I'm quite easygoing and fun irl. I take a bit to open up and when I do, I'm a chaotic mess🥀 But until we get there! it's better to be safe than sorry, hence the tone :P anyway! I hope you're having a good week and feel free to reach out to me, with a short message about yourself, if this resonates with you! <3

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u/AFlyInYourEar — 6 days ago
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Talk to me about your day or anything that's on your mind, let's have a mindful chat and see where it goes.

Disclaimer: I'm queer friendly and will not tolerate racism, homophobia, transphobia, etc so I would appreciate thoughtful messages in this regard <3

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u/AFlyInYourEar — 13 days ago

As the title says, I'm from India but I'm open to people/women all over the world, hopefully closer to my timezone but if you think we can make it work, let's go! Please be closer to my age or older!

I am not worried about our interests aligning as much as our beliefs so all I ask is please be open minded and curious. I'm queer friendly and will not tolerate racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, misandry or blind hate of any kind. I respect people who take some time to form their opinions instead of leaping to conclusions.

Some things I like are: digital illustration, linguistics, novels, non-fiction, video essays on social or cultural commentary, going for walks in the sun, and working out. I'm currently on a massive digital detox so if you're on a similar journey, we could help each other out.

I'm also a gamer and play a hopefully decent variety of games from Apex, Fortnite, stardew, R.E.P.O., PEAK, BL2, Palia, overcooked, to Valorant, and a few others. I'd be happy to play anything that interests you as well! I work from home and have a fairly flexible schedule, so I can make time to play/watch stuff with you on the weekdays as well based on my schedule.

PS: I'm not looking to chat everyday if that's not your thing but I'd be happy if we can maintain a certain degree of consistency and effort in our communication and be there when it matters of course. Please reach out to me with an intro listing out your top three interests and top 3 things you value in a friend - just quick pointers, nothing complicated. You may elaborate if you'd like! Feel free to reach out <3

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u/AFlyInYourEar — 13 days ago
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As the title says, I'm from India but I'm open to people/women all over the world, hopefully closer to my timezone but if you think we can make it work, let's go! Please be closer to my age or older!

I am not worried about our interests aligning as much as our beliefs so all I ask is please be open minded and curious. I'm queer friendly and will not tolerate racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, misandry or blind hate of any kind. I respect people who take some time to form their opinions instead of leaping to conclusions.

Some things I like are: digital illustration, linguistics, novels, non-fiction, video essays on social or cultural commentary, going for walks in the sun, and working out. I'm currently on a massive digital detox so if you're on a similar journey, we could help each other out.

I'm also a gamer and play a hopefully decent variety of games from Apex, Fortnite, stardew, R.E.P.O., PEAK, BL2, Palia, overcooked, to Valorant, and a few others. I'd be happy to play anything that interests you as well! I work from home and have a fairly flexible schedule, so I can make time to play/watch stuff with you on the weekdays as well based on my schedule.

PS: I'm not looking to chat everyday if that's not your thing but I'd be happy if we can maintain a certain degree of consistency and effort in our communication and be there when it matters of course. Please reach out to me with an intro listing out your top three interests and top 3 things you value in a friend - just quick pointers, nothing complicated. You may elaborate if you'd like! Feel free to reach out <3

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u/AFlyInYourEar — 13 days ago