u/AFamiliarGuy

To give context, I typically listen to most people's problems and support, and comfort them, perhaps that's why I made this account and am here, I don't really know how to talk about things to feel better about them as I feel my problems are insignificant compared to others, I am doing rather well in life, 22M on track to graduate college and have a house payed off by the time I turn 27-28, most people like me enough to tell me their personal problems but not enough to spend time with me outside of normal routine, the ones who do are so busy that they can't really have the time to spend with me, I struggle with a bit of empathy burnout, but feel if I'm not being empathic I'll be abandoned, if I ask for subjects rather than woe is me I feel I become useless as I feel like it's all I really am good for on terms of friendship, I've lost most of my interests around 2 years ago, and I don't really know what to even talk about rather than if a person starts a conversation about something they want (I am happy with that I just am tired of people coming with me with their burdens sometimes and I just wish they'd talk of something more positive just every now and then) I feel insignificant and worse when writing this as I feel l am stupid for not knowing how to socialize normally, and going to a channel where most people probably are already burnt out from areas of life, and are having real problems rather than whatever I have

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u/AFamiliarGuy — 13 days ago