u/ADoomWithAView

Hello,

I am an academic and artist near the a few hours from the Rocky Mountains. Partnered for nine years, and have been experienced in nonmonogamy for twelve years. I am hwp and a beard/tattoo/glasses guy. I prefer deep conversation to superficial. I like longing for someone with a firm sense of self. Please, no one under 28 and no low/no effort replies. They will be ignored.

Therapy and fitness is important but I am here to be with you not help fix you. I just want to like you for who you are right now, not feel like your dating ad is an apology for shortcomings. Be confident! I'll like you. I enjoy curves but want someone that is HWP.

I spend time with friends, teach, cook, love music. Ideally I would like to find someone online and open to meet up for a regular bond. I am happy to say hey every day but don't want the connection to *need* artificial check in. Someone should message because they want to.

I would like to avoid people that say they want "a sapiosexual connection" but can't intellectually engage themselves. Or people that are timid about ever engaging at all and using reddit as training wheels or a one night fantasy. I believe in trust and protect privacy. It's scary to engage these days but I would like to find someone to feel comfortable with.

Last details, I am tall, dark hair, near bald on top. Tucci and mixed with Edgar Allan Poe is my vibe. I am regarded as attractive and am confident with who I am. Send anything and eveything about you and we can see if we click. I will respond to profile pictures in kind. I feel like seeing each other soon in is important because either of us might not really feel it and the catfishing on reddit is pretty terrible.

Left politically. Fully open book kink wise. Like to please more than demand. I don't feel a spark unless you feel a fire. Comfortable with myself, my feelings, and giving pleasure over taking.

Hello,

I am an academic and artist near the Flint Hills. Partnered for nine years, and have been experienced in nonmonogamy for twelve years. I am hwp and a beard/tattoo/glasses guy. I prefer deep conversation to superficial. I like longing for someone with a firm sense of self.

Therapy and fitness is important but I am here to be with you not help fix you. I just want to like you for who you are right now, not feel like your dating ad is an apology for shortcomings. Be confident! I'll like you.

I spend time with friends, teach, cook, love music. Ideally I would like to find someone online and open to meet up for a regular bond. I am happy to say hey every day but don't want the connection to need artificial check in. Someone should message because they want to.

I would like to avoid people that say they want "a sapiosexual connection" but can't intellectually engage themselves. Or people that are timid about ever engaging at all and using reddit as training wheels or a one night fantasy.

I believe in trust and protect privacy. It's scary to engage these days but I would like to find someone to feel comfortable with.

Last details, I am tall, dark hair, near bald on top. Tucci and mixed with Edgar Allan Poe is my vibe. I am regarded as attractive and am confident with who I am.

Send anything and eveything about you and we can see if we click. I will respond to profile pictures in kind. I feel like seeing each other soon in is important because either of us might not really feel it and the catfishing on reddit is pretty terrible.

Left politically. Fully open kink wise. Like to please more than demand. I don't feel a spark unless you feel a fire. Comfortable with myself, my feelings, and giving pleasure over taking.