Making a save with my wife and I's sim selves. She dresses like this in real life.
They passed a bill. Her appointment to start hrt was supposed to be next month. State funds now can't pay for hrt or surgical procedures. What to do?
I used to be super feminine. Dresses, cute cardigans, leggings, blouses, make up, ect. I was more quiet and not as straightforward, less confident. But now I'm very obviously queer and men have just been so aggressive with me. Even got my life threatened once for not being palatable and doing "women's work" like I was told to. I would have done the chore if it wasn't presented in a gendered way.
I just wasn't expecting how intense men are if you aren't humoring them. And I know this has to do with me being butch because this started happening within the last year I've been presenting this way.
I'm not going back into the closet. and I feel so free being who I've always been inside. But anytime I mention cutting my hair off in front of these men they get uncomfortable. I feel like they are trying to push me back in line. I hate it.
