Is this person down?
know someone that lives close to me. he’s a long time friend. married but separated. think he could be bi. have crazy fantasies about him. very big strong dude. much older than me. we’ve had some interesting moments and I just can’t tell if we’re on the same page. One time he hugged me and he kind of guided my face toward his arm pit. maybe his fetish? He wanted to come to my gym and he’s always ask me specifically about showering at that gym. one time he called me saying I want to take you some place. went to an event nothing happened but he brought up the conversation about people being gay and okay with it. was talking about a vacation he went on and how he the “men and women” there are all good looking. when o was talking to him at his house, he would get pretty close to me and always block the doorway. he’s much taller than me too. one time he sat down on the couch and was talking to me with his legs spread a bit open with almost a smirk. I honestly can’t tell. he always goes on random trips alone. I’ve never done anything but I’d be down to with him. is it just weird moments or are any of the signs kind of valid? how should I act next time.