u/90percentbooks

so i’ve been dating my girlfriend for several months now and things have been going pretty well. the only problem is that our sleep schedules are so incompatible. now this wouldn’t be a problem except for when i stay over/she stays over and she begs me to stay up later. i want to spend time with her but after about 10 i just want to sleep/have no energy. but she gets upset when i tell her im tired and want to sleep, even if we spent the whole day together. in the morning i try never to bother her and just scroll tiktok or read while i wait for her to wake up. how can i communicate this to her? when i try, i feel like she doesn’t take me seriously. i feel exhausted cause my sleep is really disrupted by this