From paying to dominant
So I have been sexually submissive for years. Still am today but I consider my self more of a switch. I started out watching Princess Rene femdom clips and eventually found findom which is essentially the most real and consequential way of being dominated by someone you have never made irl contact with. Money is power so it works well as a prop in power exchange.
Anyway, I became more and more interested in being the dominant one and after a few tries, found a beautiful woman who loves being bossed around, controlled, and denied orgasms and I must say, my experience with femdom and findom has set me up perfectly to be very good at this. I’m also attractive with a large dick so that absolutely helps too.
You do have a considerable amount of control and consequence in someone’s life when doing this and so I’m not pushing for financial punishment when she orgasms without permission by accident. Not that I wouldn’t be willing to do that with someone but she seems very nice and not everyone is interested in the wild West approach that you get on act where people would take your last penny even if it meant depression and financial ruin.
I just think it’s interesting because I truly believe that all of the ideas that dominants have on X, work for both genders and work on both genders. Even though you really only see it going one way.