I really enjoy fantasy, romantic or not, I like magic and prophecies and all the reality-denying stuff, but godsdamnit, wings are absolutely immersion-breaking for me. I understand they are useful (they solve some travelling issues) and seem like a cool idea but they really aren't.
Here are the features that are acceptable:
- eye colours
- tattoos
- magic scars (normal scars acceptable i guess)
- weird hair
- horns
- magic wings
BUT NOT REGULAR WINGS. Thats far too many limbs. Impossible. They would look too much like chickens and that's just fucked up honestly.
Other reasons wings are bad
- clothing
- doors
- beds
- chairs
- pooping
You see? If you spend 10 minutes actually thinking about the consequences of this choice, you'll see how it makes no sense - and you can't get away with that by saying "it's magic, get over it". If you want to establish a universe that breaks common physics, do that! But not in my fantasy books. End of rant.