Hey everyone. I’m a CIS Bi Male. I’ve been seeing this woman (trans fem) since October. We’ve been on a roller coaster of a relationship. We’ve at least broken up 3 times and got back together because I just never wanted to let her go. I love her and wanted to take care of her forever. Unfortunately she’s got a lot of emotional problems and also wants to be a stay at home wife, but in the US and with my financial situation I guess I just didn’t quite cut it, maybe if I was more emotionally available I could’ve kept us going, though I tried I really did. She wants to still be friends because I’m her “comfort person.” But she talks to me all the time about other guys she’s been with and now has a new partner. I can’t take hearing the shit they do… honestly it drives me insane and she knows that, I’ve made it very clear I don’t need to hear that part of their relationship. Oh well, fuck me I guess.
I’ve tried moving on, going on other dates with cis women, trans women, and femboys (that’s what they called themselves I swear), but like… I just can’t seem to get past her. I guess I’m just looking for a way to feel again. Maybe I’m just being a bitch and can’t accept that I’ve lost. I don’t know. If anyone has any advice on how to move on, I’d love to hear it. I can’t seem to find the answer anywhere else so I’m trying my luck here. Sorry to bother anyone, and thanks for taking the time to read my sob story. Take care.