u/6lackkkkk

we were just friends before because i was still in a relationship, but deep down i already knew i wasn’t being loved in the way i wanted to be. i didn’t want to be the one to end things though. part of me kept hoping he’d eventually come forward first, or even find someone else, but he never did.

i also didn’t want to hurt him, especially because he treated me really well. we just weren’t compatible in a lot of ways, especially when it came to love languages and other needs. i still wanted us to end on good terms because i genuinely cared about him as a person.

and even though i started becoming interested in SP, i didn’t want to cheat or emotionally cross that line while still in the relationship. so before allowing myself to fully entertain feelings for someone else, i needed the breakup to happen first. i know people say manifesting has no rules, but for me, it was more about staying aligned with my own morals and not wanting to betray someone who cared about me.

i thought it would be challenging but here i am now, able to finally focus on SP and my other goals.

got him to finally break up with 3P and also moving somewhere way closer to my hometown. i also got other guys from my past reaching out.

i’m trying not to control every single thing happening with this SP so i “try to” manifest so many other things such as money without having to work too hard and things i want to happen that seem to be “beyond my control”.

what helped me the most was just generally trusting that it’ll work out in the end no matter how many “doubts” come up. the text from him breaking no contact finally happened when i was attending some kind of event and was too busy to think about him.