Me and my gf are both new to sex. For three days now we have tried, she was well aroused before we tried penetrative sex. But we just cant get it to fit. We use lube and have tried a variety of positions but the furthest we've come is just a bit of the tip in which slipped out with basically any movement. The process of attempting eventually hurts (either because of the pressure on my dick or because the foreskin gets pulled back too far) and I end struggling to stay hard because of that.
I expected this as I have an unconventional girth (like 17 cm) but she has practiced with dildos that are even bigger than that. I didn't expect it to feel impossible and a little painful in the process. Does anyone have tips for positions or techniques?
u/6Ruby9 — 10 days ago