hi my bf and i have been ldr officially for a month, talking since december. we’ve seen each other twice feb once in march and another in april. we had a conflict a few days ago in which we resolved with fully open communication but since we’ve both been busy i feel like ive been distant/ out of it. how do i foster a deeper connection/ reconciliation online while we’re waiting to see each other again?
hi everyone i dont usually post on here but i feel like i need to this time. my bf and i were calling last night and he mentioned that his friend was going to milan for fashion week. for context, i was sa’d in milan in october and it was a very traumatic experience for me and he knows that. he made a bad joke saying “oh yeah i hope he doesn’t get assaulted like you”. i literally froze and couldn’t believe what i had heard. i was really upset and started crying. he doesn’t know the extent of how it affected me because it had been before when we started talking. he also knew that it was a hard thing for me to even open up about so i really trusted him with that information. i just can’t believe he would reduce such a bad experience of mine to the punchline of a dumb joke like that. he apologized immediately and seemed like he regretted saying it as it came out of his mouth. he tends to just say whatever is on his mind but that’s not an excuse to how insensitive he was being. i distanced myself since then but it genuinely brings me to tears whenever i think about it. idk how to go forward with this :/