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Ok 25f had three really good dates with this 26f girl. Seemed really engaged texting etc even though some personal stuff/busyness on her part kept us apart in the beginning (trip for family issue). A lot of subtle stuff about future plans continuing to hang out. Last week on a date we seemed abt to have sex but she left — rough hah but you know that’s fine.
Continued texting this week pretty good met up yesterday for fourth date. We both were really busy with work stuff (I also had some personal stuff going on so maybe bad vibes) but the energy felt a little worse. Still pretty good but lower than before; she was busy with work so she had to leave early.
She never initiated a plan to meet up again and neither did I, awkwardly tried but nothing concrete as she’s super busy this weekend. Nobody has texted what do I do — I do really think this could go somewhere. Can’t tell if other stuff is getting in the way or she is genuinely uninterested.