u/567noname

Communication Cadence

I've been talking to a guy I met online since late March - we met for the first time in early April and have hung out 4 times since meeting (I was traveling for a bit which played a part in not seeing each other).

It's still early on and we haven't fully established our preferences - we do have plans to hang out this coming week and go to an event which he already bought tickets for. Leading up to now, we had been texting pretty much daily the past few weeks (maybe missing a few days here and there). I haven't heard anything from him since Friday - I did text him last night and it appears that he read the text, but he has not sent anything back - I do know that he was with family this weekend, so I'm looking for perspective as to whether I'm being unreasonably anxious given that we haven't fully established our communication preferences and we have plans this coming week.

If there are people out there who don't text their partner daily (especially early on) I would appreciate that perspective as well to put me at ease.

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u/567noname — 3 days ago