u/4rtdec0

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hello everybody. i wanna stay as anonymous as possible so i wont go very far into detail. TW: s€xual harrasment (i think⚠️), homophobia

so hello again. it all started in 2020 when i got into the same class as this guy. he started “shaming” me for being gay. he did it because i didnt play much sports, i listened to american pop music, had more girl friends than boy friends and had a very soft and girly voice. i personally never tought that i am gay(⚠️I SUPPORT EVERYONE I DONT WANT THIS TO COME OFF AS HOMOPHOBIC⚠️), but i dont want people to be talking that i am. ive told my parents who contacted my teacher. she talked with the guy and he stopped for about half a year. back then i was still fragile and it really made me insecure and quieter. this “shaming” went on and off until 2024.

now fast forward summer 2024 i was about to go to highschool and finally felt happy because i wont be in the same class as this guy and the shaming will stop. even tho the school was informed about our situation, we ended up in the same class. at first he didnt talk with me much and i actually tought that he had gotten better and stopped. but now second grade of highschool he started i think harrasing me. when we had pe, he would come to me and hug me and then not let me go, or would purposefully touch his crotch while looking at me and much more including his crotch. also, when i would walk infront of him he would say that i am so fuckable, and other stuff like that making me really uncomforable.

now that you know that, yesterday when we had class the teacher wasnt in the classroom and him and another boy from my class stood up and came infront of my desk. they started talking about how fuckable i am and how tight i must be. im getting sick even writing about this.

i must again say that there is nothing wrong with being gay, its just a personal thing of mine.

now, yesterdays event made me really uncomforable and i dont know what should i do but i got an idea.

i was thinking of making a fake email and sending my school a letter about him but not naming him directly and not saying that its me who he was talking about. i wanted to make it for an example: hello, i heard some classmates talking about some stuff about another one and that student looked really uncomforable.

that was a bad example but something like that.

what do yall think and would anyone have any better solution?

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u/4rtdec0 — 7 days ago