i was playing as a dog or wolf or something at the age of 8 i think. my friend (7f) was doing the same but we were like talking animals. i was setting up how we were going to play because we had just came to the conclusion of what game we wanted to play, out of nowhere- i feel her on top of me and she starts dry humping me. i thought it was just a joke or a short thing that she’d do but as i tried to move away, she didn’t let me. i said “what are you doing?” and she said “hold on” or “wait” i don’t remember. it went on for like a minute or 2 before she stopped and we just went on with our day. i do remember i didn’t feel comfortable with it but didn’t do anything about it. Now i’m 14 (turning 15) and i feel like she shouldn’t have done that, maybe she didn’t know but it just felt off. does this count as sa even though she probably didn’t know it was wrong?
i was also told that getting groomed is a form of sa but this is something else that happened online with a boy who was only 4 years older than me but i don’t even know if that counts as sa because it was online. he tried to coerce me to send pictures though and would say really bad things to me really late at night (like 5 am) and would be really dry with me afterwards if i couldn’t because my mom wouldn’t let me stay up. (i was 12 he was 16) and even acknowledged that it was bad what we were doing by saying “will you still stay with me when i’m 18…” but idk i DID feed into it because i didnt think what we were doing was bad but i realized our age gap was definitely not okay.
i just want advice to know if what my friend did when i was 8 was sa.