u/44stargirl

This is kind of an embarrassing question but basically I'm about to turn 20 and I'm still a virgin. I know thats okay but still I feel super embarrassed about it and can't stop myself from feeling like a loser bc of it. I really want to try having sex and know what its like. Yes I can (and do) solo stuff but its not the same as doing it with an actual person.

I don't even know how I'd go about meeting guys and getting comfortable enough with someone to then progress into sex. Does anyone have any tips on how to go about this or get it off my mind ?

I (19) have every little experience with men but from the small experience I do have all the guys seem to just care about my boobs and everything else that comes with me isn't important to them. I hate feeling like I am basically just being reduced to my boobs, especially when I know there is so much more to me.

Don't get me started on when I mention that I don't like my chest and they act like that is just unfathomable 🙄 Like yes my boobs (and the rest of me) do actually exist outside of your sexual fantasies.