i like to tan and dont mind sun or being hot, but my girl has a fear of wrinkles lol. i downloaded the all trails app but struggling to narrow it down. i love jemez falls but online it says closed, idk if thats still accurate?
been in a talking stage for a couple months im 24 shes 28, today i went off bc the way she “disciplined” her cat. so were laying in bed, and her cat starts chewing on her slides. which she knew would happen if she left her slides out. she starts yelling, cussing at the cat, and then spanked him with the slides. she was already frustrated bc he puked on the rug prior to that. but like its a fucking cat… they get hairballs… get over it… anyways i was like wtf. first of all its too early for all that cussing and yelling. second of all where is the personal accountability?! she left the slides out, her cats almost have no enrichment, so imo its her fault that her cats misbehave. so i told her “that was excessive, it threw me off, made me anxious and i dont like that” she stayed silent all morning until i left. then texted me insinuating that i made her feel “bummed out” and that she didnt want to do anything today like we had originally talked about. so i just said “sorry youre feeling bummed” bc ???? am i supposed to feel guilty for saying what i said? i can be harsh with words, and i did apologize for the way i said it NOT what i said. but idk i always gaslight myself into thinking im being too mean.