I live in the Bay Area, CA where a lot of people wait to have kids but I am sort of shocked how many people list that they want kids well over 40. I am not looking to have kids but I also filter on other criteria (I am sober so not wanting to drink all the time is important and I get more hints from the profile than drinking preferences). Similarly, I am super willing to date people a certain distance one direction but the same distance another direction is a definite no for me and it is significantly more time consuming. I find that I spend so much time just filtering, and it isn’t something that premium would solve for. I swipe left on everyone who wants kids but I sometimes wonder if they are serious about it or not, and also if it is as non negotiable as I interpret it as. I feel like it’s way more than half the people who don’t already have kids and I don’t really know I want to date people who have kids either.
I am more curious about it than anything else.