u/33eagle

I was kind of curious who normally pays for the weddings? I know for desi weddings usually the girls parent cover it. It seems like for afghans the guy or his parents pay for most of it. And for engagement maybe the girls family? Or is there no strong tradition for it.

For those of you married in USA , how did yall split it up. Currently in the process of nikkah/ wedding planning and cost of it is now close to 120-130k. Im covering almost all of it but just kinda curious if im supposed to be getting some help.

EDIT:Also if you know an Afghan wedding planner, please DM me. Someone who’s familiar with the customs/traditions. Need some help with planning and coordinating.