Switches - Experiences and thoughts?
I admit I come from strictly religious background so I'm also a little unaccustomed to... everything.
I want to know how do you feel about your sexuality. I kind of struggle with the idea of being domianant as a woman but more about that I like both sides equally. My discovery was pretty recent. I am generally more of the dominant person and like submissive and introverted people and my relationship and sexual encounters more or less looked like this so far but very much on vanilla side. I tried to introduce edging and successfully was able to impement it but it's not something that my partner seems to enjoy as much as I do.
I read both dominant and submissive subforums on reddit and couldn't really connect to either of them fully. How do you experience sex? Do you go into specific mood before the sexual encounter or you switch during as you see fit and depending how the other person acts towrds you? Maybe there discepency between me and my partner in the way we experience the encounter? He seems to enjoy both sides too but is really unsure about this. Also I'm just curious to talk to people who are like me and discuss how they feel about it and what their experience is.
The other aspect of it that interests me is purely psychological. Why do people are one way or another? What is the reason and why am I both? I found some info about personality traits being tied being sub/dom but nothing much.