It’s been two years. I’m thankful to be far removed from the situation. Though sometimes I still feel some type of way about not pressing charges on my abuser when I had a chance. He was able to put a charge on me for criminal damaging. And yes, he made sure to show up to every court date and even once brought a girl with him 🤣(thankful I can laugh about it ) I just feel like he’s the one who should be having jobs turned down at a record following him.
I’m just writing this post hoping that somebody else is smart enough to do what I didn’t. And that’s get out as soon as possible and never be afraid to call the police. I’m thankful for how smart the situation made me because I’m hyper aware of all signs of abuse and characteristics that will turn into abuse later.
I did attempt to press charges on him later, but they told me that I didn’t have enough proof. So I also advised that cameras or even your own personal audio from your phone is in place when arguments start to get out of hand.
Have strict boundaries and please continue putting yourself first. please know that it gets soooo much better.🩷🩷