I was wondering if there is a way to have the "S Pen left behind" notification, which usually pops up on the tablet, sent to my phone as well. It would be a very helpful feature since I often put my tablet in my book bag and wouldn't see an alert until I take it out again.
I’m (20M) from Iowa and my now ex-girlfriend (20F) from Wisconsin. We were long distance for a little over a year.
For background, we’re both Christian and had talked about wanting to stay abstinent until marriage.
Recently, she wanted me to go with her to Arizona over spring break to visit her grandma. The trip would’ve been just the two of us traveling and staying together for about a week. That didn’t sit right with me, so before saying anything I asked a few people I trust (friends/married friends, people from church, and my parents). They all gave pretty similar advice that it probably wasn’t a great idea given what we were trying to stick to.
When I told her on a phone call that I wasn’t comfortable going, she hung up on me. After that, for about a week she barely talked to me, but would send me reels about things like “men need to be more masculine,” “if a woman is angry it’s the man’s fault,” and Bible verses that felt kind of out of context.
Eventually we started talking again. On one call she asked what I did that day, and I mentioned I was looking at cars on fb marketplace a and set my location farther south to see better non rusty cars that people had for sale. She said something like “well if you came with me to Arizona you could see the ones there,” and I responded maybe someday. After that she went quiet, and later that night she hung up (we usually stay on the phone overnight).
A couple days later she texted me saying she was happy with the the time we've spent together, but she wasn’t happy with the way I “disrespect her,” and that I didn't "bring out her wild side," and then ended things.
Something else that had come up before this is that she would say I didn’t show her enough love. When I asked what I could do better or how she wanted to be shown love, she would usually respond with that I should “just know,” which left me kind of confused on how to fix it.
From her perspective, I think she probably saw this as me not supporting her or not being willing to show up for her. From my perspective, I was trying to stick to what we had both said we believed and what I felt was right for me, and I don’t feel like I was trying to disrespect her.
AITA for not wanting to go on the trip?