u/22_thatonegirl22

About 5 months ago, I (27 F) started talking to a guy (31 M). We talked for about 4 months and then I brought up being more intentional with getting to know each other. He told me that he wasn’t looking for a relationship because he was content with being single and wasn’t in a place for a relationship. Mind you, this guy has never really dated anyone. We had a few more conversations about this and during our last conversation, he told me that if he was in a place to date, he would be interested in me. I decided that I wouldn’t be able to continue to be friends with him because of the feelings that I had for him. I told him this and we haven’t spoken since then. It’s been about a month and no matter how hard I try, I can’t seem to move on. How do I process this and move on? I keep thinking that I want him in my life, even as just a friend, but I can’t do that right now and it kills me.